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Born Among Us

 

In Advent Fr Stuart persuaded three members of our congregation, Jean Porter, Patricia Hall and Catherine Richards, to host an informal celebration of the Eucharist. On each occasion a member of the group was asked to address four main questions:

*Where do you see Jesus ‘born among us today’?

*What does ‘following Jesus’ mean for you?

*Why do you belong to a church?

*What question would you most like to ask a group of people trying to follow Jesus?

 

Jean Porter, Tulo Raistrick and Helen Campbell were the brave souls who, with Fr Stuart’s guidance, provided the central focus for our reflections during these celebrations. Sharing the prayers, readings and Eucharist in a cosy lounge helped us to feel secure in the supportive atmosphere generated - the only tense moment was when Rosie (the splendid cat) decided to select Fr Stuart as her staging post to view the assembled visitors.  Her claws were particularly incisive.

 

Jean spoke in her elegant and well measured way illustrating her thoughts with experiences from her extended family and her church life, together with quotes from the great and the good. The quotes from Fr Geoffrey Rider and Bishop Desmond Tutu provided rich food for thought and comfort, particularly ‘The light shines on in the dark, and the darkness has never overcome it.’ In conclusion Jean asked the group: Where is the Church going? Is there any way we can make a difference?

 

Tulo showed his Christian conviction through his enthusiasm for his work with the Tear Fund, speaking with obvious commitment and engaging persuasiveness, describing what the Christian life meant to him at home and at work in the U.K. and abroad.  Tulo’s gentle and calm assurance impressed everyone gathered in the group.

 

Helen used her experiences of motherhood and the innocence of children as the basis of her thoughts. She also described the difficulties she had confronted at times of bereavement, and how being part of the church community supported her Christian journey. Helen’s question to the group provoked some interesting discussion: Are we interpreting the Bible to suit ourselves?

 

Each occasion had a different atmosphere of generous hospitality and shared exploration of our Christian life. Fr Stuart encouraged us to listen and participate as we felt comfortable so to do, I imagine rather like the early disciples gathered round the meal table to ask questions and share a common focus in a small and uninhibited group. The elements of the Eucharist were offered from hand to hand, sharing the giving and receiving of bread and wine in a complete circle. These informal Eucharist services were very special times where the loving, supportive group gave us the chance to take another small step forward on our progress as Christians. Thank you to Fr Stuart and to everyone who volunteered to host or to speak at one of these very special occasions.                                                         Janet McDonough